10. Any wedding on any reality tv wedding show- I guess Say Yes to the Dress includes no actual weddings, but I can't even tell you how much we have learned from Four Weddings- we now know exactly what kind of stuff people complain about weddings (food and bad timing seem to be at the top of the list). I think if the Boy could he would put us on that show, and I shudder to think of all the ways he considers our wedding a competition.
4. Monica and Chandler- I love that they manage to really capitalize on monica's inner Bridezilla before that became a thing and Chandler's character flaws as well, but it just makes it that much better when they make it down the aisle. I also really love the Chandler learning to dance/ having bad shoes plot line. A good one, but way more formal and fussy than ours.
Ok, so my original plan was to pair the weddings with "lessons learned" but all of the weddings I really liked, like maybe the top 5, have the same lesson; be you, be happy, and lots of crazy stuff is going to happen but do it your way and it will be fine. As long as you end up married (even if it is by your patient) you have essentially accomplished your goal, so figure out how to enjoy it.